My name is Aaron Frazin. I’m a Sex, Relationship, and Executive Coach.

I’m currently available for coaching.

I’ve been successfully helping men, women and couples overcome intimacy issues and enjoy great sex since 2018. Throughout my career, I have trained as a therapist, trained other therapists, and founded a multi-million dollar technology company, which was acquired.

I have a Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Bradley University and extensive additional schooling in body based psychotherapeutic approaches including Hakomi Mindfulness Based Therapy, Gestalt Therapy, Somatic Sex Education, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Emotion Focused Couples Therapy (EFT).

In addition to intimacy coaching, I work as an executive coach helping entrepreneurs become balanced and centered leaders.

I am also passionate about climate change, making art, and the moment when cashiers open up new checkout lanes at the grocery store.

Remove Sexual Anxiety

Move from sex filled with pressure, “performing,” and anxiety towards one of power and confidence

Re-Ignite Intimacy With Your Lover

Explore how to find a deep erotic life again with your partner through games, processing, and new skills

Experience More Sexual Pleasure

Have sex filled with pleasure and connection by creating a deep erotic connection with your own body

Last Longer & Stay Hard

I’ve worked with countless men who can now get hard, stay hard, and last as long as they want

Process Sexual Trauma

Using somatic and mindfulness-based processes, we can change our relationship with past-traumas

Repair Your Relationship

Learn how to fight, how to repair, and how to be empowered both as a couple and as individuals.

  • “Working with Aaron changed my life. I’ve overcome sexual anxiety, ED, and transformed sex from an opportunity for failure to something fun and playful. I’ve changed how I view and value myself and better relate to and accept my emotions - particularly anger, fear, and sadness. Aaron helped me to make changes in myself that I didn’t think were possible and that I wasn’t able to achieve after years of struggling on my own and even working with other therapists in the past.”

    Male, San Francisco

  • "I didn't think this was actually possible. I had struggled with premature ejaculation my entire adult life, read many books on the topic and even took an online course - none of which helped. I was beginning to think something was biologically wrong with me and now, after my work with Aaron, I am living proof that change is possible. I feel so incredibly grateful to have the sex life I’ve always wanted. My partner has literally been crying tears of relief and gratitude."

    Male, Southern California

  • “Aaron facilitated couples therapy that re-ignited intimacy in our relationship. He is patient and understanding and helps me experience my feelings in real time, raising my own internal awareness. He calls on a breadth of experiences both professionally and personally that make each session unique and memorable. Our work together the last 3 years drastically changed my life.”

    Couple, Chicago

  • “Aaron is a miracle worker. Since talking with Aaron, I have been successfully intimate with my partner many times. Focusing on pleasure, rather than being goal oriented was huge for my confidence and solved my problem.”

    Male, San Francisco

  • “Aaron has been a sounding board for some of the best and toughest times of my life. Aaron is a great listener. He’s always been real with me but has given me space to find my own solutions to life’s challenges. He helped me find clarity when I was choosing a child free life and through other difficult family matters. We’ve had sessions filled with tears and sessions filled with laughter. I feel more confident managing my relationships and navigating my feelings. I trust Aaron and highly recommend him for therapy.”

    Female, South Carolina

  • "I'm deeply indebted to Aaron for helping me get 'back on track'. He helped me realize that my issues were 'normal' and treatable and his gentle confidence and assuring demeanor help me feel confident in myself. His breadth of knowledge saw the big picture, and helped me see many unrecognized factors influencing my anxieties and enjoyment, helping me to begin to heal both emotionally and sexually."

    Male, Washington State

  • “Nearly 2 years of therapy with Aaron has significantly improved my sex and dating life, self-awareness, and communication with partners and friends. He helps me form connections between multiple aspects of my life, including my past and present, which allows me to better understand what I want for myself in the future.”

    Male, San Francisco

  • “I have seen myself grow and become a better version of myself in ways I did not know I could because of our work together. Aaron really takes the time to listen and help me process what I'm thinking and how I'm feeling. He's helped me develop my own skills and abilities to empower me to do the work on my own. Although I've been working with him virtually during our time together, I find Aaron’s energy and presence so warm, inviting, and welcoming. I am truly thankful for the time we've had together.”

    Female, New York

Overcome Performance Issues

Sex is best when it’s playful and connected, yet many of my clients initially reached out experiencing intimacy filled with shame and anxiety. When the body doesn’t act like we want it to, we often avoid intimacy or feel broken. It doesn’t need to be this way. You don’t need to live with premature ejaculation, delayed orgasm, vaginismus, or erectile dysfunction. I specialize in helping men and women who don’t believe they can have a healthy sexual relationship with their body have the mind-bending, soul-filling sex they want.

Have Electric Sex with Your Partner

You can have toe-curling sex with your partner, again - even if you’re far from it right now. A healthy erotic life is part of the life-blood of a satisfying relationship; it’s adult play, it’s connection, reconnection, and showing and feeling desire for each other and yourself. Together we can get to the root of why you and your partner are not getting what you want out of sex and then explore many techniques, games, and experiments to help you have the sex you want as a couple. After working together, many of my client’s report having better sex with their partner than they ever had, despite starting our work together in a crisis.

Build Skillful Relationships

Often at some point in a relationship, couples find themselves stuck in a cycle that’s triggering to each other. Communication starts to break down, and the relationship feels more work than play. It doesn’t need to be that way. I want both of you to feel powerful and safe to each other. We will work together to break the cycle, not just with communication techniques but also by making life-altering changes. Together, we will learn how to fight, how to repair, and learn one of the most-important yet why-is-this-not-taught-in-school skills: the skill of relationships.

Sessions

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